I'm worried that i bring up sex or send sexy pictures too soon after a conversation starts with someone I met online. I know this isnt right so don't feel the need to tell me this is wrong but i tend to use talking about sex or sending sexy pictures to a guy to keep them interested in me. Do i need to wait until they actually meet me or at least until they get to know me better so they dont see me as primarily a sex object.

I've been talking to this guy and because its me things got sexual fast. I know there's something to be said about anticipation and the thrill of the chase. He got a promotion at work and so he's super busy with trainings and such so I know that could be part of the reason why he's not paying as much attention to me as he used to but i kind of think that since things got so sexual and he's basically seen everything it's old news or not as exciting to talk to me or something.

I know some of you are going to flat out disapprove of me sending pictures and call me a slut and even though i asked for no judgement you're going to judge because its easy to type something up and send that you wouldn't say to someone face and i know there's a high probability I'm going to regret even posting this on here because it just causes more problems but im hoping that you will take a minute and think about what you are saying so again I ask you not to judge me. I judge myself enough everyday and as I said I know it's not a good thing to do.