I just went off bc, and have gained 20 lbs in 4 months. I have tried multiple ways to lose weight... I'm exercising regularly, eating healthy, fasting but no weight is coming off. I know if I get back on bc the weight will come off like nothing, but I'm really trying to stay off the bc because we're wanting to have a kid soon. Has anyone else had this issue? I need help :( im feeling very low and have no confidence because my body is not looking good.