What is a good way to introduce painful pleasure to a partner who may be more reluctant to this kind of intimacy 🙈. I'm nervous even more because this is something that I myself I have just become open in expressing and wanting to experience it with my partner, but I'm afraid that he's to Amazing and Chivalrous to go as far as I would like. He's good for a great ass slap, and even a light throat squeeze but I want more! #help I don't want to scare him off 😔