FWB her or me?

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Okay, so I am in FWB relationship, he is my Dominate and I'm his Submissive. He tells me all the time how I am his, he owns me and etc. I don't have an issue with that. Then he tells me he is going to try to have sex with another girl. I have told him, if he does that then he isn't fucking me. He can be FWB with her or me. The thing with her is, she has never had sex, so he would have to teach her EVERYTHING. His reasoning is "she is attractive". He can have me when ever he wants to, he has not only claimed my pussy but he has claimed my ass as well. He ties me up, whips me, spanks me, chokes, bites, etc. If I were to fuck or even imply I was wanting to fuck another guy he wouldn't be okay but I'm supposed to be okay with him wanting to fuck another girl. Not only that but I don't know if she actually hasn't had sex and I'm not going to put myself in a situation where I can get an STD. I'm not sharing my Dominate. I don't think I should have too. You have decided to make me "your" submissive. I'm not going to any other dominates and asking them to bite me. What do you think?

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FWB never really works out one person always ends up hurt but I do agree you can't be sleeping around with multiples unless it's understood by both! A good dom would never put you in a potion of danger and I would feel extremely hurt. You have power to walk away. Stand up for your self being submissive in bed does not mean you don't have a voice.

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If your fwb he kinda can do what he wants lol. ..hes not necessarily yours . So i wouldnt complain you kinda put yourself into that position...thats what friends with benifits is ... you can see other people.

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That's just an excuse to cheat. He's full of crap. Forget this joke of a man. Clearly you aren't cool with this. Forget him. He wants his cake and to eat it to and to use you and sleep with other people. Not cool. He can take that crap somewhere else.

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Seems like a sticky situation but ultimately if you are not comfortable with the idea of him sleeping with others than you can walk away. If you guys did not discuss being exclusive than he has every right to sleep with other girls. I understand that it's probably confusing because he's a dominant and you're a submissive, and you guys might have it set up to where you can't sleep with others but if that's your rule. However, there are many more dominates out there who would be willing to be exclusive.

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Uh your friends with benefits your not together he can do what he pleases?

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You realise you are not in a relationship right? He can sleep with whoever he wants to. Your accepted that when you labelled what you are as fwb. It's not his fault you don't wanna get it from anyone else. Move on cause he is free to do what he wants