For those of you that share accounts w/ you s/o, do you think they should run purchases by you?

My husband and I share an account. I'm the one that pays the bills and balances give check book. It really frustrates me when he makes purchases and doesn't let me know. I'm not saying he has to ask necessarily but I'd like a heads up! He has a horrible past when it comes to money and I don't want him to get to comfy spending when and how he wants. Thoughts? 

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