I am 7wks+5 and my boyfriend hasn't wanted this baby from the time I told him. He freaked out when I told him initially and had me spend 3 days at my mother's with no communication while he "got his head on straight."

Except his idea of that was to come to me and say he still didn't want the baby, wanted me to have an abortion or at least a miscarriage, and wasn't sure if we could make it as a couple with a baby.

I think our relationship is fine. And I know we can make it if he stops acting like this and works with me to make sure we will. But he blames me for not making abortion an option and for deciding to keep it even though he doesn't think we can do it. (We have a great support system in my family and friends and he just doesn't see it and instead thinks it's literally impossible and will ruin his life.)

He also wants me to move back in with my mother while he moves into a new apartment with our roommate so I can save money until after the baby is born. So a literal year of being away from each other (45 mins drivetime) starting a month from now, up until the baby is 6 months old.

I don't know what to do or how to think, feel about all this other than I do not feel supported and I don't recognize this man anymore.