What's the hardest part?

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What is the hardest part of having a baby, everyone's always saying how tiring and hard it is having a bubba so I am just wondering what makes it so hard.✌️

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I think the hardest part is wondering if I'm doing the best for her with each decision I make. Labor and sleep is nothing compared to that.

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The hardest part for me is blaming myself for every little thing. If he'a fussy because he didnt sleep well, i feel like i failed him. If he is fussy when im breastfeeding him, i think its something ive eaten. If he's screaming because he doesnt feel well, i feel like the worst mom. I want to be the best for him.

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I have twins so it may be different for me, but I think the hardest part is not having enough time. I stay home with them and I'm a student. Currently I stress about how I'm going to have the time to care for them, make their food, feed them, play with them, clean something in my house cuz it's always a mess, make dinner, go to the store if I need, do the few hours worth of daily school work I have to do, and still have quality time with my husband. They are so worth it though

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I think it depends on who you ask. See my mentality was (before baby) "I can take care of a baby now I can do it then". But after you go through labor and delivery you don't realize how tired you are from that and how it takes WEEKS to recover. 
So when that baby arrives you are hardly able to care for yourself...but then all the sudden you are responsible for an entirely new person who you can't ask what's wrong. Or fix every single thing for them.

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I have dedicated myself 110% to my son (now 4 months) and some times I would really like an hour to just soak in the tub by myself to just gain my sense of self back.
 
Otherwise, even those tough nights are a blessing.
 
His sweet smiles and laughter get me through a lot.  And now that he is teething... that is saying a lot, hahaha.

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