most people take good people for granted..

And then complain why is so hard to find someone good... i take this from own experience... i am a hell of a good person, i try really hard to help others around me... i am not the person who will be able to solve all of the existing problems in this world, but the ones I can help - I do. But all i get back is people taking me for granted... it's disgusting. I find myself sometimes feeling like "that's it.. I'm done helping others" but as soon as someone asks me for help my heart simply cannot say no... and it sucks because some people don't deserve it. 
The same happens to my boyfriend.. we are so selfless sometimes... he fortunately got a 6K bursary from his university... which he decided he would save it all to pay part of his masters.. he told his family and now his brother lives asking him for money when he knows he is trying to save it. His brother does not even need it.. it kills me to see my bf would do anything for them... they take him for granted and he won't even allow me to comment on this topic..