Missed misscarriage..question

Jessica
I had my whole story typed out...but it's too hard for me to post the depression I'm in, so I'll just ask a question. My peanut has been gone for 2 weeks and I've only known for a week. I want to do things naturally, but nothing has happened. How long is it ok to wait for it to be natural before I can get an infection. I really don't want a d&c or the pill...