Me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for over 8 years been together over 9 and didn't use protection for 6 years. I kept wanting to fall pregnant and it would never happen I'd get upset over the negative test every month or when I missed a period ( I'm very irregular so some periods are 32 days apart an some up to 58 days apart) so was so hard to track ovulation and didn't have the money to buy a million ovulation test to see when I was every month. Well this year I told myself I was giving up that after 6 years of nothing and being told I was fine an he was too that there shouldn't be a problem getting pregnant. I ended up getting pregnant 2 months after not focusing on it anymore an just enjoying sex instead of trying to fig out when I'd ovulate to have it. I'm now almost 19 weeks with my my little princess!!! So honestly lady's if you been trying for a long time just take a breather don't test don't think about it just relax ( I know harder said then done but it can be done) I'm sending baby dust to all of you an hope that your times come soon like mine did.