So I have a confession, lately I have been craving sex...my boyfriend knew about the dilemma but we would always get sidetracked for one reason or another well apparently I woke him up a couple nights ago because I was having a sex dream (even made noises and stuff) so he woke me up and proceeded to have a quickie (not sure if he anticipated that it would be a quickie) with me with a new brand of condom by Trojan (Fire and Ice)...which I didn't like at all because he was done before the product could really work😩. So, all it did was get me more excited and wish I had not been woken up.

It's terrible, I know.

Because I am all about give and take and I love to make him happy I surprised him with a bj when he was washing the dishes the next night. I love to surprise him, it's so hot and he actually will randomly make a noise (he's usually very quiet).

Any advice/ideas on how to encourage the possibility of sex more? I'm not always very "take charge" so any tips would be great!!!