How do I tell them I don't want them to go out?

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It's that time of the month again for me and gee wiz have this PMS cycle been crazy. My boyfriend, the 22 year old lad with the 16 year old's relationship maturity has been hanging out with his group of new friends every day for the past week. 
I have NOT been ok with this but this is a relationship so OF COURSE he can hang out with whomever he likes (of course as long as he doesn't cheat or disrespect me). 
Now here is the thing, I've been bottling it up all week to the point where something very silly set me off. He wants to go sailing for the first time, without me, (I should mention I'm in another country doing research for my thesis). This group of friends are people he met a few weeks ago and he works with and I have yet to meet any of them. So I finally flipped after a week of being supportive as f*ck on him hanging out with them. 
I don't want him to go sailing tonight...
He wants to go sailing tonight. 
I told him I feel left out and after him ditching me for the past week (I've been asking to watch a movie at night), that I feel uncomfortable with him going out again. 
He's still going. 
I'm between exploding 💣 and crying a river. 
That sailboat will be there alllllllllll summer. 
The movie will likely be there forever. 
We've been dating for four years
He has socialized with these people for a week. 
Help?

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See here's the thing you should have communicated your feelings when you first started having them. But even then like others are saying you are in another country so he going out with work friends there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and your making yourself look foolish by trying to control what he does. He's 22 not 52 and that doesn't make him a 16 year old. Basically you need to apologize just say you are stressed out and a lil jealous he's out having fun while you are away which it sounds like you are. Say sorry and add in you really just wanted to watch a movie with him and then if he doesn't make the time to do that soon you can be upset but you definitely need to be mature and not sugar coat your feeling only to explode later.

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This is a you problem

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You're in another country? How are you going to watch a movie together? He can't have no life just because you aren't there.

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Its people he met through work what else is he supposed to do sit around and do nothing while youre gone nope he has a life too if he wants to go hang out with friends then he can do that he is a grown man you are not his mommy

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I've been in along distance relationship with my now husband. I think it's important for him to carve out time for you. Have y'all never heard of Skype dates? They work and my husband was 22-24 at the time and understood that you make time for the people you love. We would watch movies at the same time on the phone. It felt like he was there and we still had a connection. Yes he still hung out with new/old friends but he knew I was important too.

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Youre over reacting plus you arent even there get out his ass

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I'm confused.. You are in another country.. How the heck are you going to watch a movie or hangout?

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Girl, let him live his life! It sounds like you miss him and are jealous that you can't be there, but that's not his fault or problem. Maybe you're even a little scared that he's having too much fun without you, but don't you want him to be happy and have fun? Deal with your feelings by acknowledging them and letting him know that you're sad and jealous that you can't be there and you're sorry for taking it out on him.

How do I tell them I don't want them to go out?

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