I need to rant a minute but I do want to get some advice I guess. My boyfriend and I have a five month old daughter and ever since she was born I've been very cautious about her father being in her life. More or less afraid he'll die, or leave me kind of thing.. Well every day I message her father checking, if he made it to work, got good sleep, and ate. Like normal. (We don't live together) well through out the day he tries to keep me updated but once six rolls around, being it's time for him to be off and heading home. It's as if he drops off the end of the earth.. I know he shouldn't be texting and driving but before he leaves for home and when he gets there I would like to know... just so ya know if he gets in a wreak or something..

But here lately he's been either waiting till late to say "well goodnight babe I love you kiss mony for me" or other times knowing he has to work he'll be texting me at midnight saying oh I'm swimming or something stupid like I went to the bar to play "pool" but ends up drinking his bets....

I just worry alot, I know it's his money and he should be spending as much time as he can before he's a full time father but.. I don't know. I need advice..

I just want to know if it sounds like I'm hovering too much.. I just want to make sure he's. Not dead...