Threesome or no?

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I have been asking for a baby for a couple months, but my boyfriend said he wanted to have one of his "fantasies" before we have a baby. (Says the night after we will try to conceive) But I feel a little self conscious about the idea. He says he would always choose me over another girl but sometimes when I look at other women i feel like I'm not as pretty. So should I go through with his agreement or hope he gets over it?

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I've seen so many people on here tell their stories about threesomes and how much they regretted ever agreeing to it. One specific post that I read said that her husband ate the other girl out, paid very little sexual attention to his wife, and basically just went to town on the other girl. If I remember correctly, it ended in divorce.
So I 100% say do not do it. If he wants to keep you and your relationship healthy, don't bring anyone else into the bedroom. Afterwards all you'll think about is the stuff he did with her instead of you, and ut just really won't end well.
Threesomes are relationship destroyers.

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Your boyfriend sounds like a manipulative douchebag.

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This is the most manipulative thing I've ever heard. Wouldn't be surprised if he changes his mind after. You're already insecure this would make it a million.tomes worse.

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There should be no ultimatum for you to have a child with him. If he TRULY wanted a baby right now he wouldn't be doing that. Just sayin

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No no no no and no!!!

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I would never. He wants to start making babies the day after you and him have sex with another women? Ha that's funny. Tell him you can fulfill a fantasy of his that just involves you.

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I think threesomes need to be 110% okay with your boyfriend AND you. If you don't want to do it, have the smallest amount of worry and are just doing it to to make him happy then no I wouldn't.

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No, don't do it! 
It's easy to promise, but you never know! 😳

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I would totally say go for it but you're not comfortable and he doesn't seem to care that you aren't comfortable. That seems like a deal breaker. I would for sure talk about how this is making you feel. Good luck!

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What's the point of being in a committed relationship if you're just going to bring others into it?.

Threesome or no?

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