My boyfriend and I just broke up a few days ago (he cheated on me). The problem I'm having is that I'm demisexual (I need to love someone in order to be sexually attracted to them). I'm extremely horny right now and want to have sex, but I can't have sex with a random person and masturbating doesn't do anything for me. I still am sexually attracted to him, since I still love him even after what he did. He's the only one who can calm my horniness right now, but I don't want to ask him to have sex at this point. I'm trying to meet new people but it will take a while before I love someone again... 😞 has anyone gone through something similar?