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My boyfriend is really into anal but i just dont think i would like it at all. Iwant to make him happy but that just grosses me out. What should i do

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Never do something to make someone else happy that you don't want to do.

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My husband always mentions it and I always say no. I have No interest and don't want to do something that makes me extremely uncomfortable.

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Just tell him if he wants to do anal, you have to do it on him first!

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Just tell him, communication is the key! My bf loves head and I can't stand it and he is understandable when I tell him I can't do it! Hope everything works out!

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Sharing fetishes is really hard. My general rule is if im not 100% against it, then try it once. Kind of like taking one for the team almost, you might even surprise yourself and like it. If you do it and absolutely hate it then don't do it again. If you're on the fence then do it for his bday.

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Yeah if you seriously don't want to do it. Don't. But if you're iffy you could ease into the idea of it. It's really not that bad. I was scared I was gonna be in such much pain and my husband wanted to do it so bad. I wasn't totally against it so I eventually was like alright let's see how it goes and it went pretty well!!

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If you're a solid no then don't do it, period. But if you're 50/50 and open to it then talk to him about it, tell him it's your first time doing it, how afraid you are and that you need easing into it. You can always just have him use a finger or two first to loosen up. Also, plenty and I mean plenty of lube and it won't be a problem. I'm 50/50 with anal myself. I've done it a few times but it's not the first on my list when it comes to having sex. The initial insertion hurts for me, that's the worst part, but once it's in then it's "ok", it's a different kind of feeling, one you can't really describe. Also, the first time I did it I actually pooped. Not a proper solid poop, but the brown stains where there and I immediately had to poop once it was over! It gives you that sensation. So my advice would be to use an enema kit first so there's no brown leakage!!! (Sorry for TMI) but that's how it is. You just have to try it because you'll never know otherwise. A lot of girls love it but a lot hate it too. I'm one of the "in the middle" ones.

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Try it once and see what happens. You never know! But do not let him pressure you, if you don't want to, don't.

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Get anal gel and and anal toy

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