What's wrong with me?

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My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We started dating when I was 17, I was pregnant by 18, so I guess I missed out on my "party years". Since I've turned 24 I've been having urges to talk to other guys. I've been developing crushes on guys. It's overwhelming because I obviously love my husband. I don't want to break up or cheat but I just keep having these urges to explore and find myself. I think it doesn't help that my friends are single so when we go out they can freely talk to other men and have fun. I love my husband but I want to talk to other guys. I low key think I just want attention. What's wrong with me. Why am I such a piece of shit. 😔

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It sounds like you may be a little bored in your relationship and needing more attention from him. I would communicate your needs to him and even your crushes. Stay away from your single friends for awhile bc you sound like you are on the verge of an affair.

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It's not weird to feel like that after being in a relationship for a long time. It's totally normal to be curious...to wonder what life would be like to date another guy, or other big life changes. 
You're not a bad person! 
Stuff like this can remind you why you DO want to be with your husband. It can also give you GREAT ideas for sexual fantasies or roleplaying!

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I'm in the same position, but I ended up leaving my boyfriend and ruining our relationship because I couldn't let go of another man who I had strong feelings for. My advice is to be careful. Truly think about what you want. Write in a journal, spend time alone to think. Stay AWAY from men and situations that tempt you to cheat or to be flirty. You don't wanna cheat, but we are all human and we all can slip up in the heat of the moment. You're still young, just think about what's best and make the best choices you can.

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I've been with my boyfriend for four years now and I've felt the same way you're feeling right now. The best thing to do is rekindle the relationship and spice things up. I did and things are great now. I hope things work out!

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I understand, I'm 20 and luckily i had these urges before being in a serious relationship. You probably just want to be your young self. I know many people who have been married since they were young and wish that they dated more and actually explored. Honestly, its up to you. There is nothing wrong with what you're feeling. You can always date other people, you just have more factors in your life to consider.

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Okay.. you realize you can go to parties and still have a good ass time even if you're single right? Don't blame your relationship for you missing out on your "party years." 😐

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I agree with @cl. I feel like you should try and work on your relationship. Find the spark again. If you truly are in love with him you can get that wanted attention from him. I've been with my husband since I was 13. I'm 22 now he still makes me blush, he makes me feel special and he gives me attention and affection. You can find whatever you're lacking in your husband again. You just have to try and communicate your needs and wants. You have to initiate the affection too. Good luck

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I met my husband at 14 years old and have been with him since. We had a big wedding 10 days after I turned 18. There's nothing wrong with enjoying other men's attention. I myself love it. Makes you feel hot! Go out and have fun. Enjoy the men's attention, talk to them, as long as you don't touch and they don't touch you then you're fine. Don't give them your number either!! Lol but let them buy you a drink, dance with them, have fun!

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