My husband says he doesn't want to have a baby right now but when I suggest BC he changes the subject. We use withdraw method but only seems to "slip" on days around my ovuation date??

He was in a special unit in the Army in Germany for years & I have heard some of the shots they give can cause men to have a low sperm count or even be sterile. & everyone keeps asking when are going to have a baby. I have wondered if aye he is scared he can't have children so he brushes it off. I haven't brought it up for this reason.

Are there any other woman out there who think maybe our men feel too much pressure sometimes & how did you handle it??

Please only honest advice to help & not criticize.