Giving birth / first few days after

Okay so I've a few questions for you ladies who have given birth as this is my first, thankyou in advance if you answer any of the following😘

- how painful really is it?

- what's passing the rest of it out after the baby like?

- what's your flower like the first few following days?

- when can you have sex again?

- birth control afterwards?

- stitches?

- did you poop during labour and how common is it?

- is it painful urinating after giving birth?

- do you bleed after? .. if so how long and how heavy?

If you could tell me anything more than what I've asked that is also welcome❤️