No connection?

Anne 💙💙💙 • Mom to 3 boys. August 2015, December 2016, December 2018
I'm 9 weeks. I have zero connection with this baby. I'm not a real gushy emotional person. But after ready posts on here I kinda feel bad. Woman saying they saw the ultrasound and just melted and they are in love with the baby. To me it doesn't feel real. I'm not showing or can feel anything yet. This is my first pregnancy and was 100% planned. I just don't get why I'm not feeling like I think I should. Did anyone else feel like this? 
Same thing happened with my wedding dress. You see these shows and girls break down in tears. When I found my dress I was like ok cool I like this one. But no magical moment so many talk about.