My fiance and I have been trying to conceive for a year (as of April 13th 2017). We kinda quit for a month or two by my choice. Now one of his friends got his girlfriend pregnant(she is 18, she lied about being on birth control, he wants her to get an abortion and she refuses, btw she was tracking everything to get pregnant knowing he wanted an abortion if it happened so young) and I got jealous as I have been trying longer with approval from my s/o and when we talked about pregnancy last she said if I got pregnant before her she would be livid. Might I add both of us work full time, my fiance makes 23 dollars an hour and regularly gets overtime, while her boyfriend hasn't had a stable job but makes decent money, her boyfriend doesn't want a child and wants her to abort the baby. All this while my fiance and I are engaged, have stable income, have our own apartment with no roommates (while they are always broke living in a 4 bedroom house with 6 other people), we are young but no where near as young as her(both of us are 21 and his friend is 20), and we both have our own vehicles(mine is fully paid off and his truck note has never been a problem). We have worked our ass off to get everything in order, we make an extra 1500 to 2000 a month after bills and groceries. She doesn't keep her house clean, she doesn't take care of herself, she has no sense of responsibility, and no idea how to budget. Neither does her boyfriend but he admits to it and that is why he wants an abortion, because he knows they are not ready. Now my fiance and I are trying again because being around his best friend's newborn son and seeing them make it with 2 kids while making less than us he is convinced we can do it. He is just as excited as me and for whatever reason when I told her we were still trying she got mad at me "for trying to take her thunder" about being pregnant. She calls me her best friend and EXPECTS to be in my wedding..she thinks she is going to be my maid of honor when I met her in March or April. If I was your best friend you should be excited for me but all she has done is put down me trying. I barley call her a friend most days and usually stick to saying she is my fiance's friend's girl because that is how I know her and usually why I hang out with her.

When you want someone to be excited for you not giving up when I have taken prenatals for months, tried the crazy positions, tried the stand on your head although I know most people can just lay down after sex and be fine. I have tried it. I decided to try one more thing since my hormones have been checked and are as they should be. Now my fiance has decided he wanted to try fertility vitamins for him and we are buying me some next week. Hoping it works for us! The reviews said it worked for several people and I have heard good things so here goes nothing.

Besides my mother in law sent over a craddle and crib that is sitting in my spare room...Maybe she knows something is coming before us 😂

4 days late now having blood clots