Do you believe the "once a cheater always a cheater" saying?

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Hmm...

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I myself have cheated on ex boyfriends in the past and I'd deeply regret it and such, and now I realized exactly how fucked up it was and I will never do it again, I can't even think about cheating on my SO, I only have eyes for him

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Nope.  The people who do repeatedly cheat don't do so just because they thought "well,  done it once,  may as well keep doing it! ". They do it because something in their personality makes them think it's Okay. I've got quite a few friends who have cheated in past relationships but are now happily married and would never cheat on their partners.

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No, not at all.  People grow and people mature.  Sometimes a life changing event makes people rethink their values.

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I don't believe that. I think people cheat for a variety of reasons. Whether that be the situation they're in or whether they themselves just enjoy cheating, etc. 
Some people cheat and have no remorse and will continue to cheat because they see nothing wrong with it. 
Some people go through phases where they cheated and later on learn it was wrong and don't want to do it again. 
Some people cheat because they aren't happy in their relationship and don't know how to leave. 
Some people cheat because they were taken back for cheating and think it's OK because they'll always be taken back. 
Some people cheat because they are low life scum and have no remorse and don't care who they hurt. They're selfish and stupid and dumb and... okay okay you get the point. 
My point is many people have their reasons for cheating and I think many people can and do deal with those reasons and change them thus changing their incentive to cheat. 
My boyfriend cheated on his high school girlfriend all the time. He had his own reasons. 
When we got together I had my doubts that he would cheat on me but he's been faithful and tells me that he just went through a phase and learned it was wrong. Plus he also said that he loves me in a way he didn't love that girl and he's grown since then. 
So no. Once a cheater not always a cheater. People can change.

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I don't believe in that saying. However if you take someone back whose cheated on you, it's likely they will do it again if they don't respect you and think you'll take them back no matter what.

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I do. I don't want to be vulnerable or waste my time with someone who can't fully be with me

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Yep. 99.9% of the time.

Do you believe the "once a cheater always a cheater" saying?

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