Months ago I wrote about my SIL's fiancé and his behavior towards my 2 yo daughter. My husband said he would talk to his sister, but he didn't. Since then, I have been trying to distance us from them but they did come over two weeks ago and what I thought was going to be a quick run in, run out, has made me feel that things have gone from bad to worse. During that visit, they brought my daughter gifts from HIS mother (I met her once) and I found him taking pictures of my daughter posed with the gifts. He also offered to take my daughter outside so my SIL and I could relax. He told me that he sent pictures of her to his mother and my husbands aunt (without asking us first) and that he has pictures of her on his phone from the past year. He took his shoes off and got in my daughters kiddie pool with her and told her he was going to buy her a bigger pool. When they left I called my husband and told him to tell his sister that her fiancé is not welcome at our house anymore, as his behavior makes me really uncomfortable. Nothing else came of it, until this past Saturday.

My husband and I took our daughter to a festival where she had her face painted. A few hours after we came home I looked at my phone to see a text from the fiancé to my husband and I...it was two pictures of my daughter that my husband had taken of her at the festival. He sent them to his sister and in turn, she sent them to her fiancé. Under the pictures he wrote Priceless. I lost it! I screamed at my husband and asked why the fuck this guy is sending me pictures of my own daughter, pics that I hadn't even seen yet! We got into a huge fight and I didn't say more than two words to him until this morning where I told him that if he's not going to talk to his sister, I am and it's not going to be nice. They are not welcome at my house anymore and certainly not my hospital room when I have our baby in a month. I want this guy away from my family!! My husband says he agrees with me that it's weird, but he thinks I am overreacting and that we don't have anything to worry about. I told him that I am going by my motherly instincts and I will do ANYTHING to protect my children; I don't care who it offends!