My boyfriend gets nervous and I think he feels like he is under a lot of pressure if he knows when ovulation time is. I didn't tell him that today I got a positive OPK, he said I can come over and we will be BD'ing he just won't know it. And before this gets out of hand WE are actively TTC, there's no tricking to it, we both agreed to a child. Has anyone been successful using Softcups? It's my first month of charting BBT, CM, using OPKs and I think I'm going to try the SoftCup. I know sperm gets where it needs to but I'm just hoping and praying that this is finally our month.