Warning: Rant incoming.

Sammie

OK, background first. My husband and I have been married about a year with on and off daughter for five years before that. We have a one and a half year old son together. I conceived him the month I found out about my fiancé's daughter with some woman who's name he doesn't even remember. This woman was the kind to seduce men to get pregnant and have a child for a tax deduction. She had I think six kids before and they were either all dead or taken away from her. My fiance had fallen prey to her about a year before we became engaged. Granted, no DNA tests or anything have been done, but this little girl looks exactly like my fiance, and they had slept together without a condom. I just found out about am hour ago that she had been taken from her mother recently and I don't even know if she's ok. I know it's not my place but it's killing me not going and fighting for this little girl. Problem is, financially it would be rough beings as my fiance now husband is currently in CDL training classes and gone for three weeks plus I don't think he wants to fight for her. We're in our second month TTC, and I really want another child of my own. But I would be willing to sacrifice that to save this little girl beings as my husband refuses the idea of three children. What can I do?

ADDITIONALLY: I just want to add that I don't respect my husband any less for the things he did while we weren't together. We both made some poor decisions. I would also like to add that her mother is working on getting her back, that her husband legally adopted this little girl as his own, that when my husband becomes a truck driver the income would help us get her but not him bring going most of the time along with the fact that legally not being blood or anything and would being the primary care giver I'd have to be at least twenty one and I'm only nineteen. So we're fucked anyway. And it just hurts my should knowing that little girl will still probably not get taken care of and there really isn't anything either me or my husband could do about it. Not in the position we're in.