Missing oral

Just venting -

I found out my cheating ex gave me HSV2 a while ago. Since then Ive reconnected with another ex and basically told him up front but he didn’t seem to care and we’ve been going strong for a while now. The only thing is sex is so different with him now because of the STD 😞 he has no interest in touching me there yet alone putting his mouth in the general area at all ( which was originally his greatest talent). He’s fine with his 🍆 of course but nothing else. I crave that feeling again so badly- it just sucks. It’s not his fault of course and I completely understand his hesitation but it still sucks for me. Sex is literally three minutes of doggy style and that’s it.