My boyfriend and I had tried for Thirteen months to get pregnant. He's fourty-one and has never had a kid before. I'm twenty-one and it's my first kid, too. Until about a month before I got pregnant we were having sex all the time, but then it just... Stopped. I'm eight months pregnant now and I just don't know what to do. He works during the nights and I recently quit my job so I know he's probably tired from working to supporting us and everything but I feel like our relationship has declined. On the weekends all he does is sleep or play videogames. He wants to nap for hours all day, then at night he's still tired. He wakes up at like the crack of dawn and starts gaming, I wake up between 8:00-9:00 and he'll be up and keep playing until around noon then he's tired and sleeps for like five or six hours. He eventually wakes up but at night when I want to watch something with him or spend time with him he passes out again. I'm usually like, "hey, wake up" and he gets mad and says I'm being rude. Just now he was starting to pass out again and I was like, "This is the last night of your weekend, please stay up with me" and he said he doesn't understand why I get so upset. So I told him, it hurts my feelings. He'll stay up and game no problem but when I want to spend time with him he's suddenly exhausted. So he got mad and sat up but at this point my feelings are already hurt and I already want to cry so I'm just over it and I tell him not to bother. There's no point in him staying up tonight, he'll just be cranky and I'll end up crying.

I just don't know what to do. He never wants to have sex anymore, he cuddles me and he talks to me but he doesn't seem interested in really spending time together like he used to be. I know he isn't upset about the baby, even his mom told me he's wanted a kid his whole life. I know he's excited for our daughter.

I just don't feel like he's excited for me anymore.