I totally need help!! Hi guys... I feel like I'm pregnant... and I still have more days to baby dance and I'm going to... I propped on a pillow last night and an excited to chart today... should I test before my period or not get my hopes up until after I figure out if I'm gonna miss it.. I'm am 19 and my bf is 31 we can't wait to have kids, but we aren't trying super hard until we are officially married... we are trying just not trying every way possible... I want help understanding my chart.... I haven't charted my temps correctly every day... I was on vacation for 11 of those days so I wasn't around a thermometer when I woke up... I was staying and my boyfriend's family's condo with all of them and we don't want to tell them that we are trying because they believe strictly in marriage first...