Does your man/lady know you masturbate? and is he/she okay with it?

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so my s/o just opened out sock drawer and asked "you been playing with yourself while I'm at Work?" Lol my toy was moved from where it normally is and I said "of course, we don't have sex as much as I like" (we work opposite schedules 😔)  He just laughed and pretended to "use" it then put it back...

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Yea. He and I masterbate together. We love it. It turns us on to watch each other

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I wouldn't be with someone who thought they could control what I do to my own body. Yes, he knows I masturbate.

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Oh yeah, and I know my man masturbates too. If we're texting and one of us feels the urge we just text "hey I'm gonna go have some me time 😉" and the other will respond with "ok love bug, think of me 😉" or "ok! Have fun! 😉" 
We both know we don't see each other much during the week and masturbation is sometimes just a nice stress relief. Some good old self care! Nothing wrong with that! Him and I will even discuss weird things we come across in porn too 😂

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My man knows that I masturbate and He's fine with it if I ask permission lol. Because of the nature of our relationship being BDSM, I get "punished" for doing it without His permission so I have to ask before I can actually do it. If He's out of town or something and our only form of communication is text and He doesn't respond within 30 minutes, I get to do it lol. (This is all consensual so I don't want people thinking He abuses me or anything.)

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We do it together! I'm in a long distance relationship and it keeps us intrigued in each other. He loves it

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So funny story. Yesterday I was in bed feeling all worked up and my wife was dead asleep. (She went out for dinner with her friends and had too much wine lol) anyways, I grabbed my computer and pulled up some porn and took care of myself while she was asleep. (I would much rather have had sex with her, but you know she was asleep) After, I get up and go to the bathroom and when I open the door she was there. (She also scared the shit out of me lol) she went in to use he bathroom and looked at me and said with a smile "So, are we going to talk about the fact that you just masturbated?"  BUSTED! She apparently heard the porn (and me) even though I thought I was being quiet. I explained to her that you know she was asleep and I didn't want to bother her and I just needed to. We have talked about it before and it's something we do when we are separated (we both travel for work a lot so sexting etc.) but it's never been something I have done right next to her before. I thought she was going to be mans but she was actually pretty cool and understanding about it.

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we just opened up about this topic this week and honeslty he does like max of once a month and I never have ... I am 23 and we have been together for 7 years.... is it weird that I dont?

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My bf know that I do it and he actually love it, I dont think it's a bad thing to do. It actually make a relationship stronger when your significant other know how you feel and maybe he/she will join. Like my man and I do it

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Neither of us masturbate, and I can't say I want my husband to. He doesn't care with either way, but I feel it's wrong in sense. Like, either I'm not enough or not Good enough...if that makes sense. My husband knows all this and has no problem not masturbating, I'm actually too much for him so it's not an issue 😂😂

Does your man/lady know you masturbate? and is he/she okay with it?

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