Tired of being judged

I just need to rant! People are constantly judging me (Drs especially ) since I'm 21 & have been TTC for 1 year. My husband is in the military and I am a RN why is this such a problem! I've known I had pcos since I was 15 so yes I'd like to start some type of treatment since it could take years! We own our home and our cars I don't see the issue🙄🙄 sorry had to rant