Maybe a bad idea?

Sooooo I've decided that if I did conceive this cycle I'm pretty much going to hide my pregnancy for a bit. I don't wanna get hubbys hopes up again & I really don't want to tell the rest of our families because my SIL is pregnant & we don't really care for each other & shed pretty much run her mouth about how I'm 'copying' her 🙄 she did that my last pregnancy. I've been TTC since my miscarriage in march so I really am hoping this baby makes it. But there are so many reasons I'd like to keep this joyful time between me & hubby. But I probably won't tell him for a few weeks. Am I wrong? 😔