I know it not the same as losing a baby, but it still hurts and have no one to talk to and im sad about it.. I didnt even know i was pregnant i went to the er with pain in the stomach and 2hrs later im having emergency surgery, to remove the baby cuz my fallopian tubes were about to rupture. i was scared and alone until my bf came to the hospital to be with me. now i feel inadequate and a failure as a woman. and was wondering if anyone else has had tgis happen and how long did it take to recover, physically and emotionally