Why am I feeling this way?

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My husband is going out for a few beers after work this Friday and it bothers me. also Saturday after work he is going fishing with the guy's.  we have been together for 2 years and this is really the first time he has hung out with friends.  I haven't told him how I feel because I want him to go. I don't want to take this time away from him. maybe I am jealous that I dont have any friends.  Or maybe I am worried because I dont know these guy's he works with.  I  just have this idea about what guys do when they get together.  like all they do is talk about hot chics and bitch about their wife's.  Idk.. anybody else ever feel like this?

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Let him have some time with the guys. It's not a big deal.

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I'm sure you feel that way because it's something new. When guys get together the last thing they talk about is women. They drink, fish, and act like children without a women to tell them what to do and really that's pretty much it. Enjoy the alone time and allow him the time with his friends. I don't have friends where I live either but my husband does. It doesn't bother me but I like my alone time so that's probably why. Don't discount your feelings but figure out the best way for you to deal with them without causing issues with him.

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sorry but he def should be able to go out with friends without feeling guilty. try and make your own! my husband hangs out with his friends once or twice a week and so do I. it's healthy

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Lmao not at all! Men don't always think about sex and hey don't always bitch about their wives do nothing to worry about. M
You need to find yourself some friends or a hobby!

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I sometimes have similar feelings but he doesn't go out often so I ignore it. I feel like it's a common reaction, even if it's something that doesn't happen all the time. 
Do what I do. Plan a bunch of things you want to do that he probably doesn't. I use these times to watch movies I know he doesn't want to see, make something for dinner I know that he wouldn't want or go window shopping (and sometimes actual shopping where I buy new things for me!) 
It feels great to do these things without him around and be able to take a little time for myself!

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thank you ladies. I know that I don't have anything to worry about.  I have recently become a stay at home mom and its driving me nuts not have social interaction with adults. I am relieved to know that I am not the only one who feels this way though.  I definitely want him to have his time and would never try and make him feel guilty about it.

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yeah I feel ya... but its whatever he might talk smack but he get the shit off his chest and comes home ready to cuddle. my man doesn't drink alot and mostly hangs out with his dad or his brother. his brothers so is my best friend so I don't really have much to worry about. .. even tho I get irritated if he acts arrogant

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if you don't have any friends go hang out with your family if you can.

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I am the same way. My hubby is currentky in a different country and I get SUPER jealous when I know he is out. I just try to keeo myself busy or workout or do soemthing to keep me from thinking about it. Like you, I dont have friends to go out with or anywhere to go really, so I just clean or run on the treadmill or binge watch a show. It is the worst when you are sitting around waiting on them. Keep yourself busy.

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I would be a little put off since this is the first time in the 2 years y'all have been together that he is going out. Like why all of a sudden two days in a row? If you don't think anything is going on, don't worry about it! But that just kind of stuck out to me when reading your comment.

Why am I feeling this way?

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