why doesn't my husband get it?

we've had two miscarriages. this last one in March 2017, although early at 7 weeks, was quite traumatic. he has verbalized recently that he really wants a baby soon. each month I try my best to get us having tons of sex during my fertile window, but he always resists in some way. this fertile window, we only had sex once even though I tried getting him into it more. I feel this won't be our month either. when i bring up how sad I get thinking about babies, he just says I should learn to deal with it. I feel I have no-one to talk to about my feelings and it sucks.