Sex Injuries

So does anyone else tear reguluarly when they have rough sex and ride top? My boyfriend and I had rough (drunk) Sex Wednesday and I woke up the next morning dripping blood to the point I thought my cycle had messed up and my period started 3 weeks early only to discover a tear a little shorter than an inch long. It has stopped bleeding but doesn't appear to have really healed.. his birthday is this weekend and I'd like to be able to celebrate with him but I don't want to tear more... is there anyway to speed the healing process?