ahhhhh so done...why are men dumb

seriously was so close to walking out tonight. get home from work there is crap everywhere from SO being home with 2yr old for 4hrs alone. He never cleans the mess they make but has a go at me for the house being messy. Than he is laying in bed still filthy from work and doesn't want to get up and have a shower because he is comfy. I after find out 2yr old didnt have a shower tonight either cause "it was too hard" Are you fucking kidding me, i swear I was so ready to tell him im done with his lazy arse but I have no where to go and a little one to think of