IS THIS NORMAL FOR MEN?

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Hi everyone, 
I am totally lost about this. I went on my boyfriends' phone, and saw that he was watching videos of women breastfeeding in order to get turned on! He also watches videos of women undressing, and in bikini's. Is this normal? I've never heard of this!

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im weirded out by this.. red flag

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Stop invading his privacy. Porn is okay. Move on and don't make it a big deal

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I think it's fine... everyone has their thing. Doesn't mean it's his thing in real life. I watch tons of porn I wouldn't want to be involved in in real life

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Only came here cause this gif of Tom makes me laugh

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Woah I mean I guess that's why people don't breast feed in public 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don't think it's normal

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It's a fetish. It's porn. It's not a red flag for anything other than he finds lactating women sexy. If the porn in general bothers you, discuss it with him. It's fine in my relationship but that's because we're both okay with the other watching. Everyone is different though but it's better to get on the same page now.

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Hahaha literally dying at that gif - this is like a genuinely concerned post at first and at the end it's like "but on the real, my bf is way weirder than I realised. 😩"

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Plus, if you were just going through his phone, how do you specifically know he was using the videos of breastfeeding to get turned on? I think you just speculated that

IS THIS NORMAL FOR MEN?

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