We've been swaddling our 11 week old son since birth practically at night. Last night my husbands aunt stayed over and let us sleep and she took care of him the entire night ( we formula feed due to issues). We also formula feed at room temp water. When my husband got home he said his aunt told him that the entire night she did what she wanted, warmed the water and didn't swaddle him. I asked her when I got up how everything went and she couldn't tell me how many hours he slept, and didn't mention anything to me about warming the bottles and not swaddling him. She just said everything was fine and she'd be happy to help again. Should I be upset? Should I ever let her help again?