Am I being petty?

Today I got onto my boyfriend about how he hasn't been doing a great job with being around or sparing time for me. I feel like ever since I got pregnant things just got worst then it was before. I'm 29 weeks pregnant, and he could care less. Last night he was at the club with his friends until 3am and it made me upset because he has done nothing for to prepare for the arrival of our baby, he has no job, no plans, and is still "living it up" in his terms. I just ask him if we can see each other for a little and he tells me to stop nagging and being so needy. Every time I say something he just sends lol back. I try to have a conversation with him, but he doesn't like phone calls or 1 on 1 convos. We do all of the talking through text and there's so much room to misinterpret. I'm not sure if my pregnancy has made me moodier, but I don't think I'm being petty about this situation as he says. Just now he was like fine do you want to go to a trampoline park or bounce house? I was like did you seriously just ask me that? I'm pregnant, and that's just too big of a risk. And then he said,"then don't ask me to do something, I have spare time and you don't want it so just take it." Maybe I am being overly sensitive, but at the same time I feel like anyone would feel this way. We live only about 10 minutes apart, but I only see him maybe once or twice a week. I just needed to vent, how do you ladies overcome that void or have you had any bad experiences with your pregnancy or the father not being around?