Bloody annoying husband

So if my husband ask for a massage I give him a good 1hour massage (head and back) but when it's my turn he just rubs his hand up and down my back and then stops looking at the bloody football, cricket or wrestling match 😒

Same my friend shared with me that she gave her husband good foot massage aswell as back and shoulder and when it was her turn she said it was not even a massage he just put his hand on her back and that it so she looked at him with a disappointment face and saying even her nepthew who is 6years old can give 10 time better massage than that.

So I shared this with my mom she said it not just our husband but also my dad he only fed her once magnum ice cream in 1992 and since then he never gifted her anything and massage ? She said he is even worse than our mans atleast they put hand on our back