I ask him to do one thing and he says he does it but little to find out he doesn't. I ask him to do one little thing and he can't. Im tired of being the only one to do stuff around here. we are engaged and I love him to death but can't he do one little thing. for example I asked him to clean out our cats litter box for 3 or 4 days straight and I ended up doing it because he wasnt going to do it. i literally have to be hovering over him for him to do anything.