Been married for 13 years. Have 3 kids and had a tubal reversal completed in November. My husband had surgery that was needed and I supported him completely. Allowed him time off, took time off to take him 5 hours away for follow up, he had 13 weeks off of work. Went back to work this week and now seem pissed at me and keeps making the remark to me and the kids that he's back at work cause your mom made me. My first thought is, why wouldn't you want to work to bring money back to the table. I work 50 hours a week, every week I possibly can and all I kept getting was texts asking, what can I do, what do you want for supper, the kids need help with their homework. Help.