In laws

My husband rarely speaks with his parents, maybe, just maybe once a month. And they never ask about the baby. Ever. Or me, which is fine. We text with them more often then talk and they never mention it. I feel alighted and kinda pissed off.
Would this bother you? I have my opinion no matter what, but just seems getting on the bad side of me, who is growing their 1st and ONLY grandchild isn't the best way to start off. Asked my husband about it and he said they don't want to stress us out? What?! By asking? Makes no sense to me.