My mom is started drama with my fiancé and I and i am beyond frustrated. We are having our baby in Jan and then I graduate college in may along with taking my boards and getting married in may and moving along with buying a house in June. She has texting me about my auto insurance which got me freaking out financially because it's a lot of money. I currently work 3 jobs just to keep busy sometimes it's really only 1, 2 of them I don't always work. My fiancé works one job around 34 hours a week and depending on the day he makes 13.25-19$ an hour.  She is pissed off because he is not working 40 hrs a week which is only an extra 78-90$. Saying he is lazy and needs to be a man and work 40 hrs which his position is not hiring a 40 hr full time position right now. He puts 1100 in our joint account and we split bills every month, his whole checks go to bills and he has nothing extra she refuses to believe that he pays anything and says that I pay everything on my own. I even offered her bank statements and she refuses and says that I have said I pay everything on my own which is not true I have all of our texts and I even asked her to send a text message that I have said that and she ignores the question. She is adding 10X more stress and it's honestly frustrating, we have not asked them for a dime and are good financially I just want us to save.