my husband and I decided to start a family. I got off the pill and for two months it was kind of "whatever happens, happens", no tracking etc.... honestly I didn't think it would take effort to conceive hah! (so naive lol)... anyway then for one month we tried really hard, tracked everything etc... no bfp...so now he is gone for 4months (he is in the military). I'm so upset we need to wait another 4 months to even try. so my question is, for those of you who ttc, how long did it take? also, did anything help you conceive quicker? I'm sad he's gone and just need some positive vibes and something to look forward to when he gets back.. thanks all!