Okay so as of today I am 16 weeks and 4 days without any support from the father. My now ex and I had been together for over a year and a half before I got pregnant. It obviously wasn't planned but when he found out he wasn't completely thrilled but he was actually there for me (him and his mother).

At the time he was going through some court situation with regards to his other child so I understand why he was so stressed. Then when I was about 12 weeks he basically said he couldn't be with me because he felt that I was just like his other baby mother. Which completely hurt me but he said he'd still play his role as a father so we separated and I moved back to my parents house. A week later his mother called me yelling at me calling me everything rude and disrespectful in the world then went on to say "they" wanted a paternity test when my child was born.

Fast forward to now, me and my child's father have not spoken since the day I left and he has not attempted to contact me. And every time I try to reach out to him he ignores me. And I also found out that he and his other baby's mother have gotten back together. It really hurts to know that neither me nor my child were good enough for him. I've also been feeling extremely lonely lately and I really don't want to stress my child out but I'm more than hurt.