my boyfriend and i had sex last night and we used a condom with spermicidal lube, as usual. the first time he put it on inside out, so i had him use a new one and start over before we even began. unfortunately, he didn't pull out in time like he usually does.

i know that condoms are made for this kind of thing, and i checked it for leaks, but i'm just a little worried. i could use some reassurance! i'm in the process of looking into other forms of birth control.