Is it rape??

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This hasn't happened, it just crossed my mind. My husband gets boners in his sleep (like most men). I've always thought about pulling it out of his pants and just start riding him. I told him if he wants to fuck me while I sleep that I am ok with it. We have never talked about the other way around though. Would it be rape? I don't think my husband would consider it rape. Idk if he would be upset or Like it though so I haven't done it.

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It's not rape if y'all had a conversation about it and agreed to beforehand, that's consent
It would be rape if you didn't have that convo tho

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ASK HIM BEFORE HAND. If he says he's fine with you doing that to him in his sleep then no it is not because he's given consent. But if he says he's not okay with that or if he IS NOT 100% OKAY WITH IT THEN IT IS RAPE

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technically it's rape but I do it & he doesn't care, he also does it to me if I'm asleep & it doesn't bother me. it depends on your relationship, just talk to him about it

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with exclusive relationships consent is more of a given, with then no consent stated as an exception for whatever reason. so I'd guess that it would be fine but yeah just ask

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Me and my SO do that... we call it implied consent. We are kinda rapey with each other... but it's not rape cause we are both down with it. Tell him today, like "your cock was so hard last night I wanted to pull it out and ride it" he will likely say something like "damn, you should have went for it"... but in the off chance he says that's weird or something... you know to try and wake him up first. When ever I do this, he wakes up pretty quickly and enthusiastically haha.

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If he's said that he is ok with it that's prior consent which would stand in a court of law. So no it wouldn't be rape. If he's never said yes then it would be. It's the same rules for sex when drunk- as long as consent has been obtained prior to the event you're ok. But if he woke up and said stop then you'd have to stop immediately, otherwise then it becomes rape since consent was withdrawn.

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Ask him if he'd be into it?

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He'd probably love it, but to be sure ask him before hand and make sure it wasn't a day he needed that extra sleep.

Is it rape??

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