Is it rape??

Question

This hasn't happened, it just crossed my mind. My husband gets boners in his sleep (like most men). I've always thought about pulling it out of his pants and just start riding him. I told him if he wants to fuck me while I sleep that I am ok with it. We have never talked about the other way around though. Would it be rape? I don't think my husband would consider it rape. Idk if he would be upset or Like it though so I haven't done it.

Accepted Answer

You should ask him how he personally feels about it before you do it.

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ALWAYS ALWAYS ASK FIRST! If you do not ask it CAN be counted as rape in the court of law. If you do not ask and he is upset by it he CAN report it and you CAN get in trouble for what is called marital rape and he would have legal grounds for divorce if it upsets him to that point. He is your husband ... Respect him as a person and respect his body.

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He would have to be okay with it first to not be considered rape.

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If you ask him if he'd be okay with it first and he says yes then it wouldn't be rape

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If you don't ask him beforehand, yes. Consent needs to be given.

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I do this with my husband because for some reason I'm always horny in the middle of the night lol. I always kiss him and wake him up first and ask if he's okay with it and it has been discussed that he enjoys it and it's okay.

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without enthusiastic verbal consent, then it is nonconsensual and without permission

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Doesn't hurt to ask him! Probably best to do that. Cause technically yes, it would be rape because you didn't get his consent prior.

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