Hubby and daughter 💖

Paulina

Well, no many know me (to not say anyone) but I wanted to share some part of my story with you all. the two people that are on the picture, are my daughter (now 10 months old, but back then she was like 3 months old) and my boyfriend. Cute, right? Many people say that she looks a lot like him. And I'm not sure if she does, but what many don't know is that she's not his biological daughter. They are not related to each other. She is my daughter. Don't worry, though... He knows, it's not like I cheated on him and lied to him that she's his kid. Nothing like that. I met him when Luna (my daughter's name) was a month old. I was a single mom from the very beginning. Her father just denied her because he has a fiance and adopted a kid with her. It was just one night, one time standard... yet I ended up pregnant. It changed my life. But it is ok, I got to meet my wonderful boyfriend... that helped me out so much, even though he didn't have to. He let us move in with him when I had a really big problem with my roommate. We weren't even dating on that time, he just didn't want my daughter on that kind of atmosphere... that picture, was maybe couple of weeks before we actually started to date. He got attach to Luna really fast. with matter of time we ended up sharing his bed (he had gave it to me when I moved in because I didn't have a bed) well, you know how that ended up after some innocent nights together 😂😅 We ended up dating. It had been more than half a year, and we still are going strong. We do have a lot of arguments. But I wouldn't be more happy without him. All his family loves Luna like their own family, they have accepted her like no other. And that makes me so happy. My point of sharing that part of my life here is not for attention, but I want to let every mom or single mom that if you are in a bad relationship, staying together with your man just because you don't want to be a single mom is not good.That would affect your baby more than you all expect. It will be hard, I know that... But someone else will come and all of that will be worth the time. And it will make you stronger. I made this post because I know many mom's that are in an aggressive relationship, with kids that are 2-4 years old that are scare of breaking up with their man just because they don't want to go through court and being a single mom. Just like my sister, shes just too scare because both of them have something on their record and feels like she won't win the custody of my 2 and a half years old niece. My man, has make me see that there's still plenty of good man in this world. And to not give up. I'm sorry for the long post, but I had to share my point of view.